You’ve worked hard, spent long hours building something meaningful, and earned stock options along the way.

But here’s something many employees don’t realize - your stock option termination window could start sooner than you think. Even if you’re not planning to leave your startup anytime soon, life can move fast - a reorg, a relocation, or an offer you can’t refuse can all trigger it.

This is the one guide you should read now - because lack of awareness or preparation can cost you the very thing you worked for: your equity.

This edition explains what really happens when that window opens, how to prepare before it does, and gives you a checklist to help protect your hard-earned ownership.

⏳ The Countdown: Your 90-Day Window

When you leave a startup, the clock starts ticking. Most companies give employees just 90 days to exercise their vested options - meaning to buy them and convert them into real shares.

If you don’t act before that window closes, your options expire permanently.

Why people miss it:

  • They never check their post-termination exercise window (PTEP).
  • They don’t realize how expensive exercising can be until it’s too late.
💡 Understanding your stock options now - not after you leave - is the best way to protect them.

💰 What It Really Costs to Exercise

Exercising stock options isn’t just clicking a button. You’re buying shares at your strike price, and depending on your tax situation, you may owe thousands in taxes too.

On average, the combined cost to exercise and pay taxes for U.S. startup employees is over $140,000 (Equitybee data).

📉 More than half of employees end up walking away from their equity because the cost or complexity feels too high (source: Carta).

✅ Equitybee’s Stock Option Preparedness Checklist

Keep this list - it could save your equity one day.

1️⃣ Know What You Own
  • Find your option grant details (strike price, vested shares, 409A valuation).
  • Confirm your option type - ISO or NSO.
  • Log in to your equity portal (Carta, Shareworks, Pulley, etc.), or ask HR for help.
2️⃣ Know Your Timelines
  • Check your post-termination exercise window (PTEP) - usually 90 days.
  • Note your vesting schedule and grant expiration date (often 10 years after grant).
  • Even if you’re not leaving now, knowing these dates means no surprises later.

3️⃣ Understand the Cost
  • Strike price × vested shares = base cost.
  • Add estimated taxes (AMT for ISOs, income tax for NSOs).
  • Taxes can sometimes be larger than the exercise cost - plan early.

4️⃣ Review the Tax Impact

Equitybee is not a tax advisor. Always consult a tax professional.

5️⃣ Explore Your Funding Options
  • Personal funds: full upside, full risk.
  • Equitybee funding (non-recourse): exercise without using your own cash; repay only if your company exits.
  • Loans or financing: usually full recourse - you owe even if the company doesn’t exit.
  • Think of exercising like an investment. It can be life-changing - or a total loss. Know the risk.
6️⃣ Get Logistically Ready
  • Ask your company for exercise instructions and payment details.
  • Make sure your personal email is listed on your equity platform (so you don’t lose access if you leave).
  • Store copies of your grant agreement, vesting summary, and 409A valuation.

7️⃣ Act Before You Lose Eligibility
  • Missing your window means losing your options forever.
  • Set reminders for your last day, exercise deadline, and funding timeline.

💬 Final Thought

Your stock options aren’t just part of your compensation - they’re your ownership in what you helped build. And ownership should never vanish because of timing, cost, or confusion.

Understand your options early, keep this checklist close, and you’ll always be ready - whether your next move is planned or not.

👉 Equitybee helps startup employees fund their stock options without using their own cash. Learn how it works →

🎥 Want to learn more about stock options?

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👀 Coming Next - A Special Year-End Edition

We’re sending this one early - because timing matters. Learn the key tax moves to make before December 31 in Smart Year-End Moves for Your Stock Options.

⚠️ Disclaimer: Equitybee is not a tax or financial advisor. Always consult a qualified professional about your personal situation.